The secret to using body language in speeches

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Notes from a Toastmaster’s speech.

Going for her Leadership Bronze; She has her Communicator Silver.

– She paid a little bit of money to the mastery of three keys to learn all about body language.
– She is the board, so we can go ahead and maintain eye contact.
– Release energy
– Often we are speaking we are nervous. Stretching out your arms will let you not be tight
– Keep people’s attention
– She used a rubber band and appears to be preparing to shoot somebody and asks if she has our attention
– Facial Expressions
– Help us emphasize emotion and be an addition to our body motions.
– Match our body to our tone.
– She goes into a stiff stance to illustrate the match of voice to gestures
– Three skits and she is going to judge them.
– She gives three snowballs (wadded up paper) to Devon and Mary.
– She has them stand side by side.
– She tells them to throw a snowball at her if her body language illustrates what she is saying.
– She says things that contradict what her body language is.
– She says things that match what her body language is and they throw snowballs at her.
– Gestures
– Can reinforce body languages
– Avoid mannerisms – that distract from a speech.
– People jingling coins in a pocket during a speech
– 3 types of gestures
– Contemporary
– Description – I caught a humungous fish. It was awesome. She shows her fingers spread
– Emotional – Three people that like movies
– Raiders of the Lost Arch
– Star Wars
– Gone with the Wind
– She asks Paige to redo the scene/dialog of Raiders “asps very dangerous. Why does it have to be Asps.”
– Han Solo said “I thought they smelled bad outside.”
– She gave them treats from a tray for doing well.

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Language

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Here are some notes I took from a church talk. Content influenced by from the strength of youth pamphlet.

– How you communicate should reflect who you are as a son or daughter of God.
– Good language uplifts and complements others.
– Words should be filled with faith hope and charity.be willing to change the subject if others use bad language.
– Speak kindly of others.
– Avoid gossip ad speaking in anger
– When thankful to say harsh things remain them unsaid.
– Remember what we text, email or post on social media.
– One person avoided the bad content of a book because they say if he gets old-timers, I don‘t want to spill out all the bad things I’ve read I the past that I can’t control.
– Words can be harsh or can harmonize.
– Words can’t be taken away.
– World reflect what type of person we are and depict what kind of person we are.
– James 3: 2- in many things we offend.
– Holland: the voice that utters profound testimony and be the same voice that can inflict pain.
– Out of the same mouth come blessing and cursing. (Paraphrase)
– The strike of the tongue breaketh the bones.
– The spirit of God is optimistic. The pessimistic sprits cut people down. We should honor God’s recommendations to be of good cheer.
– Toddy bruitien: no room for pessimism. We should be incredible optimists.
– D&c 108: strengtheh your brothers
– Harold b lee: man may fail in this country. Seas may heave but this nation is favored land.
– Jan 10 2014; letter from the First Presidency. Treat all people with kindness and civility even when we disagree.
– Proverbs 15:1 a soft answer taketh away wrath.
– Words that can be firm in information can be soft in spirit.
– Be forgiving one of another
– Matt 15: that coming out of the mouth defileth a man
– Matt 12: every idle world man shall speak shall give an account thereof in the day of judgment.
– Our words will condemn and works will condemn us and our thoughts.
– Hymn 232: let us all speak kind words.
– Hymn 233; nay speak no evil. Kindly words will never leave a stain behind.
– President Monson: : kindness is the essence of a celestial life. Jesus our savior was the epidemy of compassion and kindness.

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Toughen Up Spoiled Children

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Comments from Ben Shapiro:

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Spelling rivalry

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Good: rivalry
Bad: rivery

I need to remember rival. Then add ry.

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The beginner’s guide to self-editing Part A

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These are notes I took from a wonderful writing symposium called Life, the Universe, and Everything. We have a lot of talented people in Utah and visitors with a great deal of knowledge. Any Misinformation is the fault of the note taker. With the length of my notes, I will present this in three sections.

The final draft
– Before you reach the final edit have beta readers read your manuscript to get the general things fixed.
– Developmental editing:
– The plot, pacing story structure:
– Story structure and plot:
– Make sure you don’t have too many plot points. Maybe have only about two major plots that interweave.
– Make sure the plot and character goals coincide.
– Objectives need to be specific.
– The goal must not be easily obtainable.
– Hardships permit the character to grow.
– Watch for plot points and tropes that are overused.
– Find a new way to rewrite a new spin to an old idea.
– Email: Kelsy Thompson akelsythompson@gmail.com akelsythompson@gmail.com

Consider subplots that can complicate the character’s objectives.
– Too many subplots can cause a loss of focus on the story.
– If you have a short story that is too short, you need more complications or subplots to add complex ability.
Tension
– Think about how to add tension and add conflict.
– Watch too much exposition. It is a special challenge with invited world and terms and concepts.
– The reader is on a read to know basis. Give them only enough to understand what is going on
– Before every draft: write down to one sentence of the book does each scene add to the goal.
– Did I wrap up all the subplots?
– Do characters have logical reasons for doing what they do?
– Make sure the characterization follows their actions throughout the story.
– Double-check the conventions of your genre.
– What is the typical word count of your genre?
– 90-120K words for SF/F.
– Structure convention means what point of view.

Start with your hook.
– Need to hook the reader the sooner the better.
– Editors can tell if you are going to like the book by what they read on the first page.
– Start in the middle of your tension.
– Why should we care about the character?
– You can set the scene as you tell the story rather than spend too much time of description.
– Readers want to read about an interesting character such as voice or view of the world.

Point of view:
– YA is often written in the first person
– Avoid head-hopping or the God point of view.
– Often one chapter or scene is limited to one point of view.
– If you have multiple points of view is an option sometimes.

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Toastmasters’ Six moments of truth

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Here are some notes from some toastmaster’s training.

First impressions.
Sargent of arms should greet. If not the members could alternate officers to greet visitors.
Have name tags.
Have a professional layout. Maybe change the layout for variety.

Successful club series> speeches to help improve the club.
Membership orientation after a member signed up. Are they giving a plan to follow
Most clubs do a vote to accept new members.
Repeat the toast master’s mission statement.
When you’re a new member and have them repeat the toast master’s promise. Then club vote them in.
Assignment of a mentor. You can do books and pathways at the same time.
June 2020 to finish books.
Keep track of who is doing what or what level they are at.
Learning needs to be assessed. What are member goals?
Some use google docs to sign up speeches. Some have sign-up sheets.
Members assigned to all different activities.
Some club has certain people doing all the work.

Fellowship, variety, and communication.
Enjoyable and educational meetings. Some group uses easy speak. Be consistent
Regularly scheduled social events.
Members participate in other higher club events.
Have additional social event summer picknick holiday party. Have new members stand up and discuss their feelings of meeting
Have mentors
Have good publicity that takes a picture of a group

Program planning and meeting organization.
People to showing up: always have a pocket speech to fill the spot.
Some members don’t participate mentor could reach out to get them on agenda 4 weeks in the future so they can prepare.
Table topics have it humorous and fun gets wheels greased
Remember sandwich techniques on review. Good encouragement to and with recommendations for improvement.
Membership strength. Having problems keeping track. Or stagnate growth.
Good energy. The structure was solid.
The club is friendly, people feel welcome.
Don’t pressure for paying memberships fees the first time of a visitor.
Have an open house. Bring a guest speaker.

Achievement recognitions.
Standards are to be made aware of the applicant immediately. Progress charts checked and maintained.
Newsletter and Facebook page recognitions can be presented.
Assigning a role to help people enter their progress. Maybe do it each meeting night after the meeting.

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Treating our body like a temple

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Here are some notes from a church meeting. Any misinformation is the fault of the note taker.

– Heavenly father only uses the best materials to build his temple.
– The temple represents covenants with God.
– Each is a beacon of light in the world arou8nd us.
– We are invited to emulate our lives and bodies like temples.
– We are to fulfill specific duties in life. And fulfill our spiritual purposes.
– Our bodies should be well represented to stand as witnesses of Christ.
– How do we present our self? We have to maintain our building
– Maintenance is more than preventing premature death.
– Eat healthily. Exercise. Rest.
– The word of wisdom is the owner’s manual of our bodies.
– For others to feel the spirit of Christ then we need to be welcoming.
– Come to church in our Sunday best we reflect his holy places.
– When we feel good we illustrate the light of Christ.
– Be careful of what we permit to enter into our bodies and our minds.
– Have we become numb and tolerant of the evils of the day?
– In certain events, if the spirit leaves so should we.
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Utah County Liberty Forum Presents The United Nations Comes To Utah

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Remembering the difference between sweet and sweat

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Sweet can be something sugary and so you want more than one helping so there are two Es.
Sweat occurs when you are Exercising or physically Active. So it has the EA in the word.

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Business stories: structure and Methods

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These are notes I took from a wonderful writing symposium called Life, the Universe, and Everything. We have a lot of talented people in Utah and visitors with a great deal of knowledge. Any Misinformation is the fault of the note taker.

– Need to find a way to tell stories rather than death by powerpoint.
– Let’s get down to business…
– Companies know they have as a story to tell but they don’t know how to tell it.
– Business people want to learn more about the craft of storytelling, but
– Book storytelling with data
– They just don’t understand.
– They don’t know joseph cables 17 (or is it 8 or 23 of the hero’s journey
– Risings actions, falling, and denouement. (The final part of a play, film or narrative of which …
– Let’s face it… Just what do business stories need?
A business story needs 3 things
– Needs to be interesting.
– Needs to be memorable they have a purpose. You need to help a business accomplish a purpose.
– A persuasive- story that ethos logous path in emotions logic and the life you live. You need to walk the talk by the life you live.
– 3 kinds of lines,
like dame likes or statistics, mark twain.
Cartoon:
About story…
What we experience must make sense.
– We recognize our prior knowledge with new information. If you are not as clear as you need to be the customer will create the story for you. The same can relate to telling a story. If you are not clear on your story your audience will try to make their own interpretation.
– Kendall Haven scientist > the only way we learn is through story structure.
– The only way we learn is through story structure > Kendal Haven scientist
– A business story definition.
– A story is the result of people pursuing what they want.
– A person goes through a journey and is changed by the event.
– It begins with a big idea.
– There are 4 kinds of big ideas.
Definitions. Speed kills teenagers.
Predictions:
Prescriptions
Figuring out what happened.

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