The pyramid of character:

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I hope the following object lesson to be of use to youth ministries, family counselors, family home evenings are family devotionals. Today’s object lesson is building up made of brick and its association of goal setting

Every January, most of us will set up some new goals. As one of the virtues of having a new year is it invites us to reflect upon our past year and think about how to improve our upcoming year. If we didn’t have a New Year holiday, I wonder how many of us would do this otherwise.

Collect a number of bricks and start stacking them into some form of square base. This provides a good strong foundation. Build a second line of bricks into a square that might not be as white as the first. Continuing to build row upon row and tell it gradually builds up into a pyramid.

The object lesson associate to this is setting goals. The human can represent our establishing of our character. Each brick can represent a trait that we want to improve. We can either build our pyramid with quality products/bricks or ones that contains materials that are flawed. Flawed material can compromise the foundation and quality of the end product.

Suggestions I’ve heard that setting goals:

  1. Set realistic goals. Don’t try to do something bigger or wider than we are currently capable. Do the small things first, and then build up to the larger projects.
  2. . We want to set up type of goal that we can measure. One goal I have is to establish an old habit of reading at least a half hour each day. Recently, I read an article that a financial advisor named Dave Ramsey shared that talked about what successful people do. Many successful people will read books. I have to admit I have fallen out the habit and my new year’s resolution is to resume. I’m currently reading a book called Climategate that talks about the scams behind the proposed climate change and how it’s being used to control people. In this book I’m learning about historical weather patterns, how it affect cultures and current politics. It’s very educational and I can see how I can learn and grow in multiple areas of knowledge. If I simply read more books, especially nonfiction.
  3. 3. Some people were create will a list of goals to accomplish each day. At the end of the day. They will check off what they’ve accomplished this can show their success. One good point of advice I heard was that sometimes when someone accomplishes an additional task that and it on the original list. Then they will check it off. The virtue of this type, a checklist is that people can see the different things they’ve accomplished.
  4. 4. Another idea is instead of writing a big large goal; write smaller goals that when they all accomplish will result in the big goal. These smaller sized tasks may not feel as intimidating.
  5. I know many people succeeding goals when they share them with other people with a similar objective. One good example of this is I meet once a month with several groups of people who are aspiring writers. By meeting once a month we have to provide content to share with each other. That means we have to keep writing and producing. The networking of fellow writers encourages us to continue in our craft.
  6. 6. I think it’s also good to notice, and acknowledge the success of other people. It’s good to see the other succeed. Let them know that you see what they’ve accomplished. We, in turn can see the possibility of achieving our own endeavors.

The base foundation of the pyramid of bricks might include such things as physical activity, spiritual endeavors, improving our moral character, and improving our education. I know there are a number of areas of these categories. I could improve on. So that might be why these base bricks are on the top of my list. I can see how the foundation bricks need to be strong, so as to hold the weight of other goals and types of character traits. I want to accomplish.

 

I can also see how we want to have an overall objective in the design about. One of the things I like about George Washington and Ben Franklin. When that these men in their youth, or maybe later in their lives came up with checklist to improve their character. I wonder if it worked?<G>

 

So, my invitation of today’s blog is to consider what we would like our pyramid to be. Then start building. I wish us all excess in our endeavors.

 

If you some ideas to share our goal setting of what has worked for you, please feel free to share it in the comment section this blog.

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Another year:

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Well it’s after midnight and it is my birthday. This provides a brief moment for reflection, I want to thank Heavenly Father for The blessings I have. I have a job, a place to live, good friends and especially my wonderful family.

I need to set some new goals. So I can improve myself in various ways. It is my hope I will have a productive 2014 in many respects.

I appreciate having a testimony of Christ. I’m glad for being able to learn of his gospel. I appreciate the experiences I’ve had in my family life while growing up. I’ve learned some valuable lessons as I’ve live life on my own.

Now I’ll have to figure out what I want to be when I grow up.  🙂

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Spelling coughing:

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Bad: cophing

Good: coughing

It’s the middle two initials that message me up. I need gh instead of ph. Hummmm. When you your lungs/body fill up with a bunch of gunk, you have to start coughing to break it loose and get rid of it. Envision the letter U as a lUng filling up with gunk. coUGhing.

If you have a better recommendation, please share it.

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Setting;

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One evening, not sure when, I attended a presentation given by the author Monteen Gordon. She is very nice advice about setting. Following are some of my notes from her lecture.

 

–          Get over the guilt of not writing as much as you would like to all of us are busy people.

–          One story can be very different as influenced by setting.

–          Setting can be a geographical location.

–          A story can have a main setting and the other scenes can take place in other settings as writing a story.

–          Suggest book: the false prints by Jennifer Nelson. This author will deposit little tidbits of description in the early part of the book that will later become more relevant in later sections of the

–          Don’t miss anything of story.

–          Here is an example of famous settings, Hogwarts; tale of 2 cities.

–          Some settings are for emotional impact. Another that does this is John Grissom

–          Some settings can conjure up images that live with you.

–          When you describe things. It will require more words certainly to be careful that doesn’t overcome the story.

–          Exercise where we described the different details of the Canyon:

  • brisk breeze.
  • Smell of the alive.
  • Smell of things alive crush of pebbles underneath the feet.
  • Cascading waterfall.
  • Cold dampness of the air.
  • Scent of pine.
  • A sense of up and down because of the short walls of the Canyon.
  • Animal trails.
  • Dust in the air when Wendy
  • bright spots from the sun or shadow areas.
  • Quiet bears.
  • We were then told to use any of the above items to do a scene and he is my sample. I’m sure you won’t be over. Tell this a first draft: I left the bright sun in exchange for a thicket of trees. The brisk breeze whistled through the browse. My steps slowed as I moved up the sharp incline night was in less than a hour away and the sun was cresting the Western rim.

–          The level of details in a scene is influenced by if the story is driven by setting.

–          A suggestion from a member of the audience: If you want to learn about a place in a different country, that you not familiar with. You can twitter people who live in the country and tell them you’re an author. Ask them if they know about the bridge you want to know about. They will often give you wonderful details.

–          Setting can be added after you write the original draft.

–          Remember setting should not overcome the story.

–          A fellow writer told me about Google image, which is apparently a video chat resource where authors can videoconference with one another.

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Sing along Christmas songs:

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To fit the holiday, here are a list of sites that offer sing along christmas songs.

Enjoy:

http://www.donnasholidaysentiments.com/christmascarols.html

http://www.the-north-pole.com/carols/

http://tistheseasonto.be/carols/away-in-a-manger.html

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4I3492PjDQ

Have some to add to the list?

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The value of story:

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Today’s teaching embellishments is dedicated to the value of story and how it can contribute to the structure of home life. I hope these ideas can be of use to youth ministries, family counselors, parents and grandparents as well as family devotionals and home evenings.

I like to give some specific examples of the value of story.

Sharing stories of a parent’s past can help enable a child to understand that their mother and father has had the same temptations, emotions and experiences as a child or teen as they did. Such stories can illustrate that a parent can truly relate to the feelings of the child. If the parent can share a bad mistake in their past and how it complicated their life, than they can use personal experience to warn their own child against a similar behavior.

Another thing that can be shared with kids is the life stories of ancestors. The events of one’s ancestor can give the child a perspective of connection between past ancestors and themselves. When you share stories of these ventures of ancestors, such as coming across the ocean as immigrants or a building a home and started a new life in a new state; this can show a child that they can walk a similar yet different path as their ancestors. Their ancestors survived challenges and so can we can too. When they know that an ancestor succeed against challenges through work and perseverance, the child may realize they can do so as well with similar effort.

Another section of stories to share is of a religious nature. Think of all the wonderful stories shared of the Old Testament and the teachings in principles shared in the New Testament. Consider all the examples illustrated throughout the Scriptures. These stories can provide a foundation of moral behavior, beginning at a young age that can stretch to our maturity. One of the best suggestions I’ve heard about making the scriptures relevant to ourselves, is that when we read the Scriptures and we hear the counsel of Christ as he talks to someone; we can put our names in place of the person Christ, all one of his disciples talking to. That can help us relate to the Scriptures to ourselves, which also includes the counsel of the Scriptures.

Another good example of story is sharing the moments and figures of history. You may have a chance to share how people accomplish a dream through personal perseverance, or how people of different opinions, such as the founding fathers of America, work together to achieve a common goal. Some excellent example of this might be the writing of the Constitution, the Bill of Rights are the reunion of the South to the North. Consider sharing events from the lives of historical figures of your local town, city or state history.

If your children enjoy sports or certain hobbies, you may be able to tap into the experiences of some of your child’s heroes and how their past efforts help them succeed.

This is just an invitation for us to widen our perspectives when telling stories at bedtime. Stories of the Scriptures are some wonderful examples that could help a child gain perspective. With ancestors and heroes of all types that can all illustrate how a child can succeed. This thinking upon all the wonderful stories within the Scriptures illustrates a whole repertoire of examples.

If you have ideas that you feel it be a positive contribution to this idea, please feel free to share it in the comment section this blog. Thanks

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Dentrix comedies:

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It is always nice when a company can have ‘fun’ with their products. Here are some videos from the company that makes dential software. The short videos are episides of the Dential Enforcer.

Enjoy

 

Collecting Patient Payments — The Dental Enforcer

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B1X4MMyeCPY

 

Appointment Reminders — The Dental Enforcer

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eesYO06cUKk

 

Claim Reimbursements — The Dental Enforcer

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7v0wlRMjTgk

 

Do you know of a company who has made comedic material to promote their product. Please feel free to share.

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Spelling Nurture: 12-19-13

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Bad: nuture

Good: nurture

Some of my problem in spelling this may simply be influenced by bad pronunciation. If it can remember that a nurse is a source of nurturing someone in pain. And NUR is the first three characters of both words that might help.

Do you have a better suggestion?

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Military:

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Every year I try to attend a wonderful writers’ symposium called Life the Universe and Everything. One panel consisted of people in the military who talked about life in the military and military sf/f. Enjoy my notes.

 

–          An Army needs three things beings blankets and bullets.

–          90% of an Army is support staff for the fighting soldier.

–          Many armies will have a small core group and the rest will be mercenaries.

–          Modern military missionaries get their jobs through military contractors.

–          Reserves are soldiers used to repair broken holes in a line of soldiers.

–          Soldiers lineup in a long line to avoid being surrounded.

–          I’ll issue for the high ground, so the enemy has to use up their energy to go appeal.

If you would like to add your own suggestions, please feel free to do so in the comment section of this blog.

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Tying knots, video collection:

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How to Tie Knots Videos | Howcast.com

http://boyslife.org/video-audio/644/learn-to-tie-knots/

Learn to tie knots — Boys’ Life magazine

http://www.howcast.com/guides/130-How-to-Tie-Knots

Six knots you need to know:

How to Tie an Eldredge Knot – Mirrored Video

Surgical Knot Tying – One / Two Handed Knot and Surgeon’s Knot

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qKyL7IUpMa

Knots? Yeah, More Knots – With Video!

http://www.manitoupontoonboats.com/blog/knots-yeah-more-knots-with-video/

How to tie a Hiker’s Knot (using paralaces)

Tie a Tie. Tie a simple Windsor Knot.

Have more to add? Have you found one knot more useful than another? Please provide additional useful info in the comment section of this blog.

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